Melissa Banther

Melissa Banther

Marriage and Premarital Counselor, MFT (Marriage and Family Therapist) Verified by Christian Care Connect

States currently licensed in

MN

Locations

MN

Accepting New Clients

Yes

Accepting Referrals

Yes

For couples who desire it, I intentionally integrate Christian faith into therapy, viewing marriage as a covenant designed by God for connection, growth, healing, and purpose. I believe that growing closer to God creates a stable foundation for couples and families to build on, whether you are dating, engaged, estranged, or married. Then, couples and families can thrive and pass on healthier relationship patterns to the next generation.

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Are you and your partner feeling more like roommates than teammates? Maybe the same arguments keep repeating, trust feels fragile, or emotional and physical closeness has faded. You may still love each other—but feel stuck, disconnected, or unsure how to move forward. I believe every couple has the capacity to build a relationship marked by safety, friendship, passion, and lasting connection — even when things feel broken or distant.
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I specialize exclusively in working with couples, including:
• Christian couples seeking faith-integrated counseling
• Dating, engaged, and premarital couples
• Married couples facing conflict, disconnection, or life transitions
• Couples recovering from infidelity or breaches of trust
• Families going through separation or divorce
• Blended families navigating complex dynamics
If you’re motivated to grow, heal, and strengthen your relationship, we may be a good fit.
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My approach is warm, collaborative, and non-judgmental. In our sessions, we’ll move beyond surface-level arguments and identify the deeper patterns that keep you stuck. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the Gottman Method, along with Biblical principles, I help couples:
• Break painful conflict cycles
• Improve communication and emotional safety
• Build or repair trust and intimacy
• Strengthen friendship, teamwork, and shared values
You don’t need to have the right words—we’ll slow things down and work at a pace that feels safe for both partners.

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About Me
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with a Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Liberty University and a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology with a minor in Christian Counseling from Liberty University.

I am trained in:
• Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT) – 2016
• Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Levels 1 & 2) – 2016, 2021
• SYMBIS (Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts) – 2016
• Prepare/Enrich – 2019
• Marriage Coaching – 2016
• Christian Counseling – 2012

I work exclusively with couples because I believe focused, specialized care leads to deeper and more lasting change.
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Want to know more, Check out these links:

https://care.headway.co/providers/melissa-banther-2

Want to know more about dating / premarital counseling :

https://www.prepare-enrich.com/couples/facilitator-map/ (Zip Code : 55901)
https://www.symbis.com/facilitator-map/ (Zip Code : 55901)

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I also speak

English

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Clinician's Sex/Gender

Female

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Handicap Accessible?

Yes

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MY PRACTICE AT A GLANCE

10084 E State Road 54, , MN 55904
1-507-703-3512

Melissa Banther
(507) 703-3512

Offers Telehealth

Monday 10:00 am to 5:00 pm

Tuesday 10:00 am to

Wednesday 10:00 am to 2:00 pm

Thursday 10:00 am to

Friday 10:00 am to

Treatment Services

Psychosocial Evaluations (Non-psychologist psychotherapists)

75-90 min

Individual Sessions

50-60 min

Other Sessions

Couples Sessions

Telehealth

Psychological Testing

No

Ages

Adult (18-70)

Special populations

Pastors/Missionaries and their spouse/children

Ministry Leaders

Vets

Pregnant

Other

Types of Therapy

Talk Therapies

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Relational

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT),

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Interpersonal Therapy

Attachment-based Therapy

Family Systems Therapy

Other

Treatment Issue

Top Specialties

Marriage Issues

Divorce

Parenting/Children issues

Infidelity

Women’s issues

Strengths

Marriage Issues

Women’s issues

Divorce

Infidelity

Biblical Integration - Verbally integrating Biblical principles, passages, doctrines, stories, and information into your treatment session

Yes

Do you utilize homework's assignments for patients to do in between sessions?

Yes

Finances

Cost Per Session

Evaluations

90 min $150.00

Individual Sessions

50-60 min $100.00

Couples Sessions

50-60 min $125.00

Payment Methods Accepted

Other

Accepted Insurance Plans

Anthem

Cigna

Other

Do you accept payment plans

No

Do you provide or work with an organization that provides loans for treatment

No

Qualifications

License Number

State License

4573

School

Liberty University

Undergrad

Liberty University

Masters Degree

Professional Associations

AACC

Location

Primary Location

10084 E State Road 54, MN 55904
(507) 703-3512

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